The recent 7.8 magnitude earthquake in the southern Philippines has left many children, like young Robert, deeply traumatized and afraid to return to their classrooms. With schools shuttered and many homes destroyed, families are struggling to regain a sense of stability amidst the ongoing uncertainty. Experts emphasize that in the wake of such a disaster, parents are the primary source of emotional healing. By closely monitoring their children for signs of distress—such as sleep disruption, fatigue, or withdrawal—and responding with patient communication, parents can provide the necessary security their children need to process their fear.

To help children navigate this trauma, specialists recommend using play as a therapeutic tool. Engaging in games allows youngsters to release pent-up emotions and mentally transform their chaotic reality into a safer space, naturally normalizing their experiences. Experts suggest following the “STOP” framework—securing a safe environment, talking openly, organizing creative activities, and providing consistent parental support—to foster resilience. While the task of psychological recovery is significant and requires better institutional support, encouraging children to simply “play” remains one of the most effective ways to help them heal and eventually transition back to a sense of normalcy.